Alright what's REALLY bothering women is how childish and immature men can be. Over the past few weeks I've had the displeasure of being exposed to three men who're currently going through fairly recent break-up's. All three of these men are from different walks of life, as a matter of fact they all do not know each other and they all have totally different reasons that have led to their break-up's.
The 1st is a lawyer who's star sign I don't know but let's pretend he's a Taurus (I hear that lot has beautiful people), he's in his late 20's and reason for the break-up was irreconcilable differences, the 2nd an aspiring Chartered Accountant (CA), a Capricorn and reason is that the girlfriend cheated on him and the 3rd an entertainer, a Leo and reason is he cheated on his girlfriend. One would think that because these men have nothing in common, they'd have different reactions to the unfortunate circumstances they find themselves in...WRONG!!
Following his break-up with a girl he'd been dating for 7-8years, the lawyer not only went on to delete the girl off his BBM but he made sure all her pictures were removed from his fb albums and unfollowed her on twitter *facepalm. As I'm trying to digest all this information, my ill-mannered, thinking aloud scatter brain self blurts out "why the hell would you do that???" and his response was a general "she's not my girl anymore, it's over and I see no reason to talk to her ever again". Stupid.
The aspiring CA however was in a relationship with the stunner for about 2 and a half years and after the break up, he too went on to delete her from Skype, unfollowed her on twitter and of course chucked her off his fb and without fail had a her pictures removed off his fb *deja vu. I could have asked him why but after seeing the Skype contact with his name on it go from the green 'online' sign to a I'm no longer your friend 'question mark' sign- lets just say I got the message loud and clear and I was not going to be that lion-hearted guy that adds salt onto a wound. NO.
Onto the last one, Mr.Entertainer. Not only were they together for about 4 and a half years but they'd moved in together living as man and wife HAPPILY- or so we thought. And this o-so-loud man couldn't wait to broadcast his single status on as many social networks as he could and as if that's not enough he makes it known live on radio. Why? I ask myself...
Men are such odd creatures. I can honestly say that I'm still confused as fuck over their inability to read between the lines. I'm not saying that after a break-up both parties should still go for dinners of have sexual relations or even talk but men should just cut down on the rudeness. Yes, conversations are awkward and strained but you can't throw a girl with a ton of bricks all at once- men should calm down already. What baffles me is how 'they' always make women look psychotic and demented. I bet if any male were to read this, they'd think I'm being crazy and unreasonable. I'm no male basher but the universe constantly fails to give them common sense.
I personally I don't think it's necessary to delete ex's off social networks or phone book (you know we know that u still know the number off by heart). People accept friend requests from strangers in seconds so I find it difficult to understand how a girl the guy supposedly 'loved' gets relegated to less than a stranger in a second or less *shrugs.
As if that's not hectic enough, the aspiring CA went as far as returning all gifts and items he'd received from the girl whilst they were dating. Speechless.
If there's a man out there who would like to explain to me why men react this way, please reach out to me ASAP.
With that said- I love boys *disclaimer.
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